
Nancy Shear
I Knew a Man Who Knew Brahms
Writer and arts services consultant; recognized authority and lecturer about classical music and symphony orchestras; former radio host; and author of I Knew a Man Who Knew Brahms: A Memoir
New York, NY
BOOK COVER

BOOK DETAILS
Pub Date: June 10, 2025
Genre: Memoir/Music
Publisher: Regalo Press
Page Count: 320
Format, ISBN, Price:
Hardcover, 9798888456620, $32.00
Ebook, 9798888456637, $14.99
Audiobook, ASIN: B0F6PMC2KP
MP3 CD format (Tantor Media), $29.86
Preview of the audiobook, narrated by Nancy Shear: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tNrOTUiCwk&t=159s
ABOUT THE BOOK
A rare behind-the-scenes view of the inner workings of a top symphony orchestra and a vivid personal account of a Golden Age in classical music.
Nancy Shear was only fifteen when she began sneaking into Philadelphia Orchestra concerts through the stage door because she couldn’t afford to buy tickets. At seventeen, she was hired as a member of the orchestra’s library staff to help prepare the music; one year later, she became Leopold Stokowski’s musical assistant. Despite her young age, she was a pioneer in areas previously closed to women, but the orchestra educated and protected her, and their music inspired her.
Her memoir, I Knew a Man Who Knew Brahms, is a love letter to the art of music, taking readers into the homes, studios, and minds of legendary artists with whom Shear shared close personal relationships, including Mstislav Rostropovich, Eugene Ormandy, and members of the Philadelphia Orchestra. Many of these brilliant and talented artists were also outrageous, egocentric, and tyrannical. Throughout her stories and detailed recollections, Shear topples more than a few revered musicians from their podiums and pedestals and peels back the curtain on an otherwise hidden world.
I Knew a Man Who Knew Brahms is also the inspiring story of a young woman of limited resources who forged her way into a world that nourished her, an example of the powerful human response to the arts, and how that can motivate and sustain us.
A literary welcome mat to the beautiful world of classical music, accessible even to those without previous knowledge, Nancy’s memoir goes behind the scenes into rehearsals and concert halls, revealing the choices musicians must consider, and what conductors, players, and composers really do. A heartwarming story about passion, determination, and survival, I Knew a Man Who Knew Brahms explores music at its core, through the people who bring it to life.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Nancy Shear‘s remarkable background includes 20 years as an orchestra librarian for the Philadelphia Orchestra and the Curtis Institute, as well as private work for Leopold Stokowski, Lorin Maazel, and others. Her articles have appeared in major outlets, and she has written two books, The Three Tenors and I Knew a Man Who Knew Brahms. Ms. Shear has lectured for the New York Philharmonic, Philadelphia Orchestra, and Caramoor Festival; has hosted broadcasts of the New York Philharmonic, New Jersey Symphony, Frick Collection, and Naumburg Foundation; had her own interview programs on WNYC; and served as commentator for the American Public Media. She has taught at New York University’s School of Continuing Education and the Lillian Vernon Center for International Affairs at New York University, and has lectured at The Juilliard School, the Manhattan School, and the Mannes School of Music at The New School. She is the founder and president of Nancy Shear Arts Services, a public relations and event production agency for the performing arts.
TALKING POINTS
- How music became Nancy’s refuge as a teenager and ultimately her passport into the inner circle of world-renowned musicians and orchestras
- What it was like to be the lone young woman in rehearsal rooms and backstage corridors filled with legendary (and often difficult) men
- Why classical music still matters—and why orchestra behind-the-scenes stories resonate in a culture driven by pop
- A candid look at the egos and intensity of classical music’s greats
- An insider’s guide to the lesser-known roles that make orchestras function, from librarians who prepare scores to the soloists and conductors
- The choices all musicians must consider—populist vs. intellectual approaches, varying concepts of sound, and the freedom and limitations of interpretation—and what conductors, players, and composers really do
- Gaining insight into classical music as a singularly unique art form, particularly with popularity waning among younger generations
TIMELY TIE-INS
2025
August
- We Love Memoirs Day – 31
September
- Classical Music Month
- Anniversary of Stokowski’s Death – September 13, 1977
October
- National Book Month
- National Arts & Humanities Month
- International Music Day – 1
November
- National Author’s Day – 1
- World Pianist Day – 8
- National Clarinet Day – 16
- Eugene Ormandy’s Birthday – November 18, 1899
December
- Holiday Gifts
2026
January
- International Creativity Month
March
- International Women in Music Day
April
- Leopold Stokowski’s Birthday – April 18, 1882
PRAISE
“[I] became absorbed into the life of the classical music world that [I Knew a Man Who Knew Brahms] opened for me. I had to ration my reading of this book because I couldn’t put it down. If you are a classical music lover you can’t fail to be enthralled as I was by a puff of the rarefied air that outsiders rarely get to breathe.”
—Slipped Disc
“I Knew a Man Who Knew Brahms reveals both the eccentric methodology of the conductor (Stokowski) and the odd loneliness and insecurities of the man…. Shear contributes many a keen personal anecdote…. [Her] book is as honest and unassuming as Stokowski was evasive and flamboyant.”
—The Wall Street Journal
“Shear has much to tell us about musical interpretation, the egos of great artists, backstage politics, and the changing landscape for classical music. Was the era she lived with truly a Golden Age? It was to her, and she reveled in it to the fullest. She is insightful about the impact of music on her own emotions and parcels out her store of telling anecdotes with the timing of a fine raconteur.”
—Matthew Gurewitsch, Pundicity blog
BOOK DETAILS
Pub Date: May 17, 2022
Genre: Memoir / Christian Inspirational
Publisher: She Writes Press
Page Count: 304
Format: Paperback
ISBN: 978-1647429003
Price: $15.99